Ditch the makeup and hair products. Your budgeting skills might be the thing you should really show off on your next date.  Money skills are more important than even good looks when seeking a mate!

In a recent survey about relationships and finances, MONEY found that both baby boomers and millennials agree on the three most attractive traits in a potential mate: a sense of humor, compassion, and—yes—financial responsibility. For both groups, those qualities all rank higher than physical chemistry, diligence, and even intellect.

Click here to find MONEY’s survey results on the most attractive traits.

So when should you start saving for your kid’s college? The short answer is, as soon as possible.  However, you must fund your retirement first!  If you’re already putting enough away for retirement, start saving for your child’s college fund as soon as you can.

Click here to learn more about saving for your children’s college.  

When to start taking Social Security benefits is one of the most critical factors influencing your financial security in retirement.  Sadly, studies show that most Americans are clueless about Social Security Benefits.  When and how to file for social security benefits is an important decision. With the right planning, and possibly deferral of your benefits, you can be guaranteed a return of 8% per year. Yes, 8% per year!  *

Where else can you get this kind a guaranteed return on investments?  Stocks carry investment risk and cash-equivalents are very unlikely to keep pace with inflation.

If you were born in 1943 or later, for every month you can defer drawing social security between your full retirement age and 70, you earn a ‘delayed retirement credit’ of 2/3rds of 1 percent – that’s the 8% per year.  Filing too early for retirement means your benefits might be reduced as much as 30%.

For example: Let’s say you’re a healthy 62 year old and you are set to earn a benefit of $1,000/month at your full retirement age of 66. By choosing to withdraw at 62 your benefits are reduced to $750 a month. Delaying until 70 increases them to $1,320 a month.  According to the Social Security Administration, one in three 65 year olds today can expect to live to 90. Taking early retirement or delaying until 70 can have a dramatic impact on your benefits.

If your spouse is eligible for social security based on your work record (for example, if he/she did not earn enough credits or were lower earners during their career), your decision will also affect their lifetime benefits. There are numerous strategies that could increase your lifetime benefits by tens or even hundreds of thousands of dollars.

First understand there are three basic forms of retirement benefits: The Worker Benefit, The  Spousal Benefit, and the Survivor Benefit.  So, how do you plan for maximizing your benefits and bridging the gap until your optimal withdrawal age? There are multiple considerations: Your health, whether you are married, divorced or single, your willingness and ability to continue working, and the availability of other sources of retirement income.

A good (but basic) starting point is the Social Security Administration’s own Retirement Estimatoror other calculators.  Quicken 2015 has a new Social Security Optimizer tool (paid) while a variety of paid and free sites offer estimators to varying degrees of effectiveness. We have some sophisticated software that can run advanced social security projections.

For many of our clients, the answer isn’t as straightforward as age vs income. We consider all aspects of our clients’ situations and present a variety of scenarios, along with our recommendations. Strategies might include ‘file and suspend’ (more on that in an upcoming blog) and drawing down retirement accounts more aggressively before age 70.

The decision – like everything in personal finance – is personal.  However, making the right decision can make a substantial difference.  Know the rules before making critical decisions.

The unknown variable of how long a person will live makes this decision very un-scientific. The latest government statistics show that men alive at age 65 are expected to live to age 82.9; women of the same age are expected to live to 85.5.

Do you have money to invest, but you’re not sure where to put it?  The stakes are so high in investing that you should consider fee-only planners. They’ll give you a fixed price up front for their services, regardless of the product they recommend. You won’t have to worry about conflict of interest.

Click here to learn why  you need a fee-only financial planner.

Money Magazine shares their research on the success secrets of self-made millionaires.

Click here to read more.